I’ve had the privilege of working with Angie and Symphony Senior Home Care, and when I asked Angie if I could share a personal message this holiday season, she kindly agreed. This year, the holidays feel very different to me. I lost my mom unexpectedly last year, and now I’m facing the first Christmas without her. As I reflect on our last holiday together, I’m reminded of all the small, precious details that make memories so powerful.
We often hear advice like, “Take a mental snapshot of the special moments.” On my wedding day, someone told me to pause during meaningful moments—seeing my groom at the end of the aisle, our first dance, the shared laughter at the reception—and truly commit them to memory. Those snapshots aren’t just pleasant thoughts; they become treasures you carry with you. Now, as I think about the holidays with my mom, I realize I did the same thing without even knowing it. I remember the smell of walking into her house, warm and welcoming, the laughter shared around the table, and the sparkle in her eyes when we opened gifts.
This holiday season, if you’re fortunate enough to have your mom and dad, your grandparents, aunts, uncles, or any beloved family members with you, take those mental snapshots. Stop for a moment in the chaos of holiday cooking, gift wrapping, and rushing from place to place. Savor the scent of fresh pine or cinnamon candles, the sound of familiar laughter, the way your dad’s eyes crinkle when he smiles, or how your grandma still insists on making her famous pie from scratch.
We never know which holiday will be our last with someone we love. We understand this logically, but it’s human nature to believe we have more time. I certainly did. Now, my memories are like a cherished photo album I can flip through in my mind. If you have the chance, make this holiday count. Smile more, hug tighter, and listen more closely.
And don’t forget the practical side: Set a reminder on your phone to take a family photo, even if it’s just one. Get everyone together—yes, even the ones who hate having their picture taken. These images will become a legacy, a snapshot of a moment that might never come again.
Since I’m guest-blogging for Symphony Senior Home Care, I’d also like to encourage you to explore their other resources. My mom was a stubborn baby boomer, and I missed some subtle signs that she could have used help. Symphony’s blog and the information they share can be invaluable in understanding what to look for so you can provide support to your loved ones while they age safely and comfortably at home.
This Christmas week, give yourself the gift of presence: Take in the sights, sounds, and smells. Enjoy every sweet, silly, heartfelt moment. Make memories that will last a lifetime, and if the time comes when your loved ones need a little extra help, remember that there are caring professionals at Symphony Senior Home Care who can guide you through those conversations and steps.
Most importantly, cherish these moments—because one day, they’ll be the snapshots that fill your heart with warmth long after the holiday lights fade.